[python] Replace deprecated wheel.bdist_wheel with setuptools.command.bdist_wheel

[ryan-williams]

Issue and/or context:

As of wheel>=44.0.0 (Aug '24), wheel.bdist_wheel warns:

warn(
    "The 'wheel' package is no longer the canonical location of the 'bdist_wheel' "
    "command, and will be removed in a future release. Please update to setuptools "
    "v70.1 or later which contains an integrated version of this command.",
    DeprecationWarning,
    stacklevel=1,
)

I've moved us to setuptools>=70.1 and setuptools.command.bdist_wheel here; hopefully this is a no-op / CI will surface any issues…

[codecov]

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[johnkerl]

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