Sh/api version updates

[shetzel]

What does this PR do?

Updates mdapi:deploy, mdapi:retrieve, source:deploy, source:retrieve, source:push, and source:pull to use the API version event data from SDR to output an accurate message of what is being used for the deploy or retrieve. Updates all libraries involved.

A sample message for retrieve will look like this:
"Retrieving v54.0 metadata from [email protected] using the v57.0 SOAP API"

The mdapi:deploy commmand is the only one that will not specify the API version of the source since we don't read the package.xml contents (or unzip and read it) so that will look like this:
"Deploying metadata to [email protected] using the v57.0 SOAP API"

What issues does this PR fix or reference?

@W-12146873@

[mshanemc]

QA notes: this was mostly QA'd on
forcedotcom/source-deploy-retrieve#797
forcedotcom/source-deploy-retrieve#791

✅ Deploying metadata to [email protected] using the v56.0 SOAP API
✅ ../../plugin-source/bin/dev force:source:deploy -x mdapiOut/package.xml (v53 manifest)
Deploying v53.0 metadata to [email protected] using the v56.0 SOAP API

✅ manifest beats project.json

../../plugin-source/bin/dev force:source:deploy -x mdapiOut/package.xml --apiversion 51.0
✅ Deploying v53.0 metadata to [email protected] using the v51.0 SOAP API

../../plugin-source/bin/dev force:source:retrieve -x mdapiOut/package.xml --apiversion 51.0
✅ Retrieving v53.0 metadata from [email protected] using the v51.0 SOAP API

with 48 on project.json
../../plugin-source/bin/dev force:source:retrieve -p force-app/main/default/classes --apiversion 51.0
✅ Retrieving v48.0 metadata from [email protected] using the v51.0 SOAP API