[FEA] Include attempted allocation size in rmm::out_of_memory

[abellina]

It would be useful if rmm::out_of_memory exceptions could include the attempted allocation size that failed.

"Maximum pool size exceeded (failed to allocate X MiB)"

I am thinking it could just be in the msg, but perhaps it could be added as metadata in the out_of_memory class? I am not entirely sure.

ASYNC relevant code:

rmm/include/rmm/mr/device/detail/stream_ordered_memory_resource.hpp

Line 212 in 5e5d82b

RMM_EXPECTS(size <= this->underlying().get_maximum_allocation_size(),

ARENA relevant code:

rmm/include/rmm/mr/device/arena_memory_resource.hpp

Line 159 in 5e5d82b

RMM_FAIL("Maximum pool size exceeded", rmm::out_of_memory);

The change should also include other allocators.