[14.0.X] backport of multi-arch and scram os mismatch hook

[smuzaffar]

backport of #9154

Also include changes from #9157 to deploy the new cms-common with os-mismatch hook. These changes do not change the way we build MULTIARCH or normal IBs. These changes will be needed when we enable multi-arch for default IBs(14.1.X) and 14.0.X

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A new Pull Request was created by @smuzaffar for branch IB/CMSSW_14_0_X/master.

@smuzaffar, @aandvalenzuela, @cmsbuild, @iarspider can you please review it and eventually sign? Thanks.
@rappoccio, @antoniovilela, @sextonkennedy you are the release manager for this.
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• Backported from for multi-arch set SCRAM_TARGET to auto MULTIARCH/SKYLAKE otherwise to default #9154

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cms-bot internal usage

[smuzaffar]

please test

[cmsbuild]

+1

Summary: https://cmssdt.cern.ch/SDT/jenkins-artifacts/pull-request-integration/PR-4c93a8/39061/summary.html
COMMIT: bd548e3
CMSSW: CMSSW_14_0_X_2024-04-24-1100/el8_amd64_gcc12
User test area: For local testing, you can use /cvmfs/cms-ci.cern.ch/week0/cms-sw/cmsdist/9158/39061/install.sh to create a dev area with all the needed externals and cmssw changes.

Comparison Summary

Summary:

• You potentially removed 81 lines from the logs
• Reco comparison results: 44 differences found in the comparisons
• DQMHistoTests: Total files compared: 48
• DQMHistoTests: Total histograms compared: 3319088
• DQMHistoTests: Total failures: 4
• DQMHistoTests: Total nulls: 195
• DQMHistoTests: Total successes: 3318869
• DQMHistoTests: Total skipped: 20
• DQMHistoTests: Total Missing objects: 0
• DQMHistoSizes: Histogram memory added: 3605.085 KiB( 47 files compared)
• DQMHistoSizes: changed ( 1000.0,... ): 127.810 KiB JetMET/MET
• DQMHistoSizes: changed ( 1000.0 ): 43.835 KiB JetMET/Jet
• DQMHistoSizes: changed ( 10224.0,... ): 43.851 KiB JetMET/Jet
• DQMHistoSizes: changed ( 13234.0,... ): 0.016 KiB JetMET/Jet
• Checked 202 log files, 165 edm output root files, 48 DQM output files
• TriggerResults: no differences found