fix(lint): options for noLabelWithoutControl are optional

[ematipico]

Summary

Closes #4125

I updated the contribution guide too. I took the opportunity to do some small refactor, and move functions inside the options struct, so we don't pass around the same object.

Test Plan

CI should pass. I checked the code generated files manually.

[codspeed-hq]

CodSpeed Performance Report

Merging #4138 will degrade performances by 39.46%

_{Comparing fix/no-label-without-control (01de10b) with main (10a1371)}

Summary

❌ 2 regressions
✅ 103 untouched benchmarks

⚠️ Please fix the performance issues or acknowledge them on CodSpeed.

Benchmarks breakdown

	Benchmark	main	fix/no-label-without-control	Change
❌	pure_9395922602181450299.css[cached]	3.4 ms	3.6 ms	-6.59%
❌	big5-added_15586211152145260264.json[uncached]	551.1 µs	910.3 µs	-39.46%