feat: upgrade otel to v1.26 (supabase#1585)

## What kind of change does this PR introduce?

Spiritual successor to supabase#1305 where we attempt to bump the OTEL version
from v1.10.0 to v1.26.0 which has a few breaking changes


## How this was tested

We used a local setup with honeycomb with tracing and metrics enabled.
We then triggered
- a cleanup to test `gotrue_cleanup_affected_rows`
- a few password sign ins to test
`gotrue_compare_hash_and_password_submitted`
- Checked if `gotrue_running` was present
- Checked that DB traces were still present

DB Trace:

<img width="1108" alt="CleanShot 2024-05-23 at 20 46 02@2x"
src="https://github.com/supabase/auth/assets/8011761/a365badb-08c3-4184-aef8-83624082d08d">


Metrics:

<img width="1064" alt="CleanShot 2024-05-23 at 20 41 51@2x"
src="https://github.com/supabase/auth/assets/8011761/1fc7743e-fc87-42a1-bf11-d14c739d5b67">

go.mod

@@ -28,9 +28,9 @@ require (
 	github.com/sethvargo/go-password v0.2.0
 	github.com/sirupsen/logrus v1.9.3
 	github.com/spf13/cobra v1.6.1
-	github.com/stretchr/testify v1.8.4
-	golang.org/x/crypto v0.23.0
-	golang.org/x/oauth2 v0.7.0
+	github.com/stretchr/testify v1.9.0
+	golang.org/x/crypto v0.21.0
+	golang.org/x/oauth2 v0.17.0
 	gopkg.in/gomail.v2 v2.0.0-20160411212932-81ebce5c23df
 )
 
@@ -40,25 +40,23 @@ require (
 	github.com/gobuffalo/nulls v0.4.2 // indirect
 	github.com/xeipuuv/gojsonpointer v0.0.0-20180127040702-4e3ac2762d5f // indirect
 	github.com/xeipuuv/gojsonreference v0.0.0-20180127040603-bd5ef7bd5415 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/mod v0.9.0 // indirect
+	google.golang.org/genproto/googleapis/api v0.0.0-20240227224415-6ceb2ff114de // indirect
+	google.golang.org/genproto/googleapis/rpc v0.0.0-20240401170217-c3f982113cda // indirect
 )
 
 require (
-	github.com/XSAM/otelsql v0.16.0
+	github.com/XSAM/otelsql v0.26.0
 	github.com/bombsimon/logrusr/v3 v3.0.0
-	go.opentelemetry.io/contrib/instrumentation/net/http/otelhttp v0.36.0
-	go.opentelemetry.io/contrib/instrumentation/runtime v0.35.0
-	go.opentelemetry.io/otel v1.10.0
-	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/otlp/otlpmetric v0.31.0
-	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/otlp/otlpmetric/otlpmetricgrpc v0.31.0
-	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/otlp/otlpmetric/otlpmetrichttp v0.31.0
-	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/otlp/otlptrace v1.10.0
-	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/otlp/otlptrace/otlptracegrpc v1.10.0
-	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/otlp/otlptrace/otlptracehttp v1.10.0
-	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/prometheus v0.31.0
-	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/metric v0.32.0
-	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/sdk v1.10.0
-	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/sdk/metric v0.31.0
-	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/trace v1.10.0
+	go.opentelemetry.io/contrib/instrumentation/runtime v0.45.0
+	go.opentelemetry.io/otel v1.26.0
+	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/otlp/otlptrace v1.19.0
+	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/otlp/otlptrace/otlptracegrpc v1.19.0
+	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/otlp/otlptrace/otlptracehttp v1.19.0
+	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/metric v1.26.0
+	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/sdk v1.26.0
+	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/sdk/metric v1.26.0
+	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/trace v1.26.0
 	gopkg.in/h2non/gock.v1 v1.1.2
 )
 
@@ -74,20 +72,24 @@ require (
 	github.com/supabase/hibp v0.0.0-20231124125943-d225752ae869
 	github.com/supabase/mailme v0.2.0
 	github.com/xeipuuv/gojsonschema v1.2.0
+	go.opentelemetry.io/contrib/instrumentation/net/http/otelhttp v0.51.0
+	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/otlp/otlpmetric/otlpmetricgrpc v1.26.0
+	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/otlp/otlpmetric/otlpmetrichttp v1.26.0
+	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/prometheus v0.48.0
 )
 
 require (
 	github.com/apapsch/go-jsonmerge/v2 v2.0.0 // indirect
 	github.com/aymerick/douceur v0.2.0 // indirect
 	github.com/beevik/etree v1.1.0 // indirect
 	github.com/beorn7/perks v1.0.1 // indirect
-	github.com/cenkalti/backoff/v4 v4.1.3 // indirect
+	github.com/cenkalti/backoff/v4 v4.3.0 // indirect
 	github.com/cespare/xxhash/v2 v2.2.0 // indirect
 	github.com/crewjam/httperr v0.2.0 // indirect
 	github.com/davecgh/go-spew v1.1.1 // indirect
 	github.com/fatih/color v1.13.0 // indirect
-	github.com/felixge/httpsnoop v1.0.3 // indirect
-	github.com/go-logr/logr v1.2.3 // indirect
+	github.com/felixge/httpsnoop v1.0.4 // indirect
+	github.com/go-logr/logr v1.4.1 // indirect
 	github.com/go-logr/stdr v1.2.2 // indirect
 	github.com/go-sql-driver/mysql v1.7.0 // indirect
 	github.com/gobuffalo/envy v1.10.2 // indirect
@@ -98,10 +100,10 @@ require (
 	github.com/gobuffalo/plush/v4 v4.1.18 // indirect
 	github.com/gobuffalo/tags/v3 v3.1.4 // indirect
 	github.com/golang-jwt/jwt/v4 v4.4.3 // indirect
-	github.com/golang/protobuf v1.5.3 // indirect
-	github.com/google/uuid v1.3.0 // indirect
+	github.com/golang/protobuf v1.5.4 // indirect
+	github.com/google/uuid v1.6.0 // indirect
 	github.com/gorilla/css v1.0.0 // indirect
-	github.com/grpc-ecosystem/grpc-gateway/v2 v2.7.0 // indirect
+	github.com/grpc-ecosystem/grpc-gateway/v2 v2.19.1 // indirect
 	github.com/h2non/parth v0.0.0-20190131123155-b4df798d6542 // indirect
 	github.com/inconshreveable/mousetrap v1.0.1 // indirect
 	github.com/jackc/chunkreader/v2 v2.0.1 // indirect
@@ -116,31 +118,28 @@ require (
 	github.com/mattn/go-colorable v0.1.13 // indirect
 	github.com/mattn/go-isatty v0.0.16 // indirect
 	github.com/mattn/go-sqlite3 v2.0.3+incompatible // indirect
-	github.com/matttproud/golang_protobuf_extensions v1.0.1 // indirect
 	github.com/patrickmn/go-cache v2.1.0+incompatible // indirect
 	github.com/pmezard/go-difflib v1.0.0 // indirect
-	github.com/prometheus/client_golang v1.12.2 // indirect
-	github.com/prometheus/client_model v0.2.0 // indirect
-	github.com/prometheus/common v0.32.1 // indirect
-	github.com/prometheus/procfs v0.7.3 // indirect
-	github.com/rogpeppe/go-internal v1.9.0 // indirect
+	github.com/prometheus/client_golang v1.19.0
+	github.com/prometheus/client_model v0.6.1 // indirect
+	github.com/prometheus/common v0.48.0 // indirect
+	github.com/prometheus/procfs v0.12.0 // indirect
+	github.com/rogpeppe/go-internal v1.11.0 // indirect
 	github.com/russellhaering/goxmldsig v1.3.0 // indirect
 	github.com/sergi/go-diff v1.2.0 // indirect
 	github.com/sourcegraph/annotate v0.0.0-20160123013949-f4cad6c6324d // indirect
 	github.com/sourcegraph/syntaxhighlight v0.0.0-20170531221838-bd320f5d308e // indirect
 	github.com/spf13/pflag v1.0.5 // indirect
-	github.com/stretchr/objx v0.5.0 // indirect
-	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/otlp/internal/retry v1.10.0 // indirect
-	go.opentelemetry.io/proto/otlp v0.19.0 // indirect
+	github.com/stretchr/objx v0.5.2 // indirect
+	go.opentelemetry.io/proto/otlp v1.2.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/exp v0.0.0-20230213192124-5e25df0256eb
 	golang.org/x/net v0.23.0 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/sync v0.1.0 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/sys v0.20.0 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/text v0.15.0 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/sync v0.6.0 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/sys v0.19.0 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/text v0.14.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/time v0.0.0-20220411224347-583f2d630306 // indirect
-	google.golang.org/appengine v1.6.7 // indirect
-	google.golang.org/genproto v0.0.0-20230410155749-daa745c078e1 // indirect
-	google.golang.org/grpc v1.56.3 // indirect
+	google.golang.org/appengine v1.6.8 // indirect
+	google.golang.org/grpc v1.63.2 // indirect
 	google.golang.org/protobuf v1.33.0 // indirect
 	gopkg.in/alexcesaro/quotedprintable.v3 v3.0.0-20150716171945-2caba252f4dc // indirect
 	gopkg.in/yaml.v2 v2.4.0 // indirect