Summary
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- Prefix node arguments with `node-`
- Include `jq` as a dependency in `dev/up`

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

- **New Features**
- Updated command-line arguments for node registration to enhance
clarity.
  
- **Bug Fixes**
	- Improved error messages for missing command-line options.

- **Documentation**
- Revised deployment and onboarding documents to reflect updated
command-line options.

- **Chores**
	- Added a check for the `jq` command-line tool installation in scripts.

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