fix(windows): use lld linker as suggested by ext-php-rs

[hamptokr]

Actions are failing due to link.exe errors. ext-php-rs actually has a note about the linker here: https://github.com/davidcole1340/ext-php-rs?tab=readme-ov-file#windows-requirements

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[darkterminal]

So quick! Dang it...

[pandanotabear]

It's still error:

I am also add:

- name: Install Visual Studio Build Tools
        if: matrix.os == 'windows-2019'
        shell: pwsh
        run: |
          Invoke-RestMethod -Uri https://aka.ms/vs/17/release/vs_buildtools.exe -OutFile vs_buildtools.exe
          Start-Process -FilePath vs_buildtools.exe -ArgumentList "--add", "Microsoft.VisualStudio.Component.VC.Tools.x86.x64", "--add", "Microsoft.VisualStudio.Component.Windows10SDK.19041", "--norestart", "--passive", "--wait" -Wait -PassThru
          Remove-Item vs_buildtools.exe

[darkterminal]

Yes.. that's still give an error.

[darkterminal]

This PR is closed by #11