Fix ConnectionPool deadlock triggered by gc

[jaroslawporada]

Garbage collector sometimes are invoked in block of code which acquired ConnectionPool._lock. This cause deadlock blocking indefinitely whole thread.

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[jaroslawporada]

Hi,
This PR resolve #2883 issue.
Helped in our celery: