Update fmt (to 11.0.2) and spdlog (to 1.14.1).

[jameslamb]

Description

Contributes to rapidsai/build-planning#56

Now that most of conda-forge has been updated to fmt >=11.0.1,<12 and spdlog>=1.14.1,<1.15 (rapidsai/build-planning#56 (comment)), we're attempting to upgrade RAPIDS to similar versions of those libraries.
This improves the likelihood that RAPIDS will be installable alongside newer versions of its
dependencies and complementary packages on conda-forge.

Notes for Reviewers

This PR is testing changes made in rapidsai/rapids-cmake#689.
It shouldn't be merged until those rapids-cmake changes are merged and any
testing-specific details have been removed.

[bdice]

We have some errors like this:

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  /home/coder/raft/cpp/build/pip/cuda-12.5/release/_deps/fmt-src/include/fmt/base.h(471): error #128-D: loop is not reachable
      for (; n != 0; ++s1, ++s2, --n) {
      ^
            detected during:
              instantiation of "auto fmt::v11::detail::compare(const Char *, const Char *, std::size_t)->int [with Char=char]" at line 583
              instantiation of "auto fmt::v11::basic_string_view<Char>::compare(fmt::v11::basic_string_view<Char>) const->int [with Char=char]" at line 591
              instantiation of class "fmt::v11::basic_string_view<Char> [with Char=char]" at line 1929
              instantiation of "auto fmt::v11::basic_format_args<Context>::get_id(fmt::v11::basic_string_view<Char>) const->int [with Context=fmt::v11::context, Char=char]" at line 1969
  
  Remark: The warnings can be suppressed with "-diag-suppress <warning-number>"
  
  1 error detected in the compilation of "/home/coder/raft/cpp/src/matrix/detail/select_k_half_uint32_t.cu".
  ninja: build stopped: subcommand failed.

These may need to be suppressed like this:

raft/cpp/include/raft/util/memory_type_dispatcher.cuh

Lines 187 to 189 in ac53a0f

	#pragma nv_diag_suppress 128
	RAFT_FAIL("The given functor could not be invoked on the provided data");
	#pragma nv_diag_default 128

[jameslamb]

context for this change: rapidsai/rapids-cmake#387 (comment)