[FEA] numba-cuda compatibility

[gmarkall]

Presently pynvjitlink patches and tests against Numba with its builtin CUDA target. The current release of numba-cuda incorporates the pynvjitlink patch so that patching is no longer required.

pynvjitlink should be updated so that:

• If numba-cuda is in use, then it does not patch its linker.
• If numba-cuda is in use, then it is at least version 0.0.18 (earlier versions don't include the patch, and may not be compatible with being patched by pynvjitlink).

This will also allow the Numba-related tests in the pynvjitlink CI to pass with later CUDA toolkits (e.g. 12.5) as it has fixed the expected PTX patterns generated by newer toolkits in the tests of atomics (See https://github.com/NVIDIA/numba-cuda/pull/40/files#diff-d48759455e529fd3994f3380640329c652dae73f5360cb977359c8c43461925b).