Add wheel-size checks in CI

[jameslamb]

Description

pynvjitlink wheels are currently being published to PyPI.org (https://pypi.org/project/pynvjitlink-cu12/#files). By default, PyPI limits packages to 100MiB per file and 10GiB total across all files.

To ensure that changes here don't accidentally grow wheel sizes beyond that per-file limit (or too close to it), it'd be helpful to check wheel sizes in CI.

Benefits of this work

• prevents release-time surprises of the form "wheels are too large to put on PyPI"

Approach

See this earlier, abandoned, attempt: #114 (comment)

And this reference issue: rapidsai/build-planning#110

Notes

N/A

[gmarkall]

#117 will be required to use newer CUDA versions in CI, which I understand was a part of the requirements for implementing this change - there is a fix in Numba required for its atomics tests to pass (the ones that were failing in the discussion following #114 (comment))