Refactor Parquet writer options and builders (#15831)

Adding options to the Parquet writer is made somewhat tedious by the duplication of code between the two current sets of options/builder classes; one each for the chunked and non-chunked Parquet writers. This PR pulls common options into a parent options class, and common setters into a parent builder class. The builder parent uses CRTP to allow chaining of options.

Authors:
  - Ed Seidl (https://github.com/etseidl)
  - Vyas Ramasubramani (https://github.com/vyasr)
  - Mike Wilson (https://github.com/hyperbolic2346)
  - Muhammad Haseeb (https://github.com/mhaseeb123)
  - Vukasin Milovanovic (https://github.com/vuule)

Approvers:
  - Vyas Ramasubramani (https://github.com/vyasr)
  - Vukasin Milovanovic (https://github.com/vuule)
  - Muhammad Haseeb (https://github.com/mhaseeb123)
  - Mike Wilson (https://github.com/hyperbolic2346)

URL: #15831