[1.3] RvcOpState - Enable pause and resume for compatible states

[hicklin]

Following this spec PR, update the RvcOperationState cluster's handling of the pause and resume commands such that the states that are not pause-compatible or resume-compatible will return an InvalidInState error when receiving the pause or resume command respectively.

The SDK should allow all the pause and resume commands for vendor defined states to reach the delegate. It will be up to the delegate do decide if the command should be accepted or not.

Note that derived clusters share the same number space for defined states. This means that knowledge about the derived cluster is required when comparing derived cluster states.