Fix incorrect binding cluster conformance in device types

[bzbarsky-apple]

Problem

#22119 introduced incorrect Binding cluster bits in various device types.

For example, in the "Matter On/Off Light Switch" device type, the Binding cluster server is required per spec, but that PR made it optional.

Proposed Solution

Fix things to actually follow the spec.

[bzbarsky-apple]

And for a bunch of other device types it's excluded, but was made allowed in #22119. So it's possible that the right fix is to revert #22119.