sink(ticdc): add total write bytes counter to sink

[CharlesCheung96]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #10114

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• 2023-11-17 02:25:01.641339095 +0000 UTC m=+4388699.228449232: ☑️ agreed by asddongmen.
• 2023-11-22 05:49:17.941934797 +0000 UTC m=+383386.607160989: ☑️ agreed by 3AceShowHand.

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/retest

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/retest

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-6.1: #10566.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-6.5: #10568.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-7.5: #10569.