update proxy of master to raftstore-proxy

[CalvinNeo]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref #4982

Problem Summary:
update proxy to raftstore-proxy
Proxy PR:
Including:\nSubmodule contrib/tiflash-proxy 92b2b8e6da..4ebe44d321:

Fix build on macos (#388)

What is changed and how it works?

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

None

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Timeline:

• 2024-08-12 02:35:49.703982348 +0000 UTC m=+149034.407452003: ☑️ agreed by guo-shaoge.
• 2024-08-12 02:48:55.427173784 +0000 UTC m=+149820.130643447: ☑️ agreed by Lloyd-Pottiger.

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