Add header verification netty channel handler

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Description

Adds an entry point for header verification in Netty4HttpServerTransport, using netty channel close allows for fewer downstream changes.

Based off work of @cwperks in #10261

Draft Status

This pull request has a very naïve test strategy, it should be looked into more deeply to be sure there aren't other side effects.

Note; it is also possible that this approach isn't needed at all if the Netty pipeline construction can be modified by the extensions of the AbstractHttpServerTransport class. More research is needed in this space.

Related Issues

• Related [Feature] Improve compressed request handling #10260
• Related Expanding Authentication with SecurityRequest Abstraction security#3430

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  • All tests pass
• New functionality has been documented.
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• CommitID: 73a410b
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Compatibility status:

Checks if related components are compatible with change 73a410b

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Incompatible components: [https://github.com/opensearch-project/job-scheduler.git]

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Compatible components

Compatible components: [https://github.com/opensearch-project/security.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/alerting.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/index-management.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/anomaly-detection.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/sql.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/asynchronous-search.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/observability.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/k-nn.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/common-utils.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/reporting.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/cross-cluster-replication.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/security-analytics.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/custom-codecs.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/performance-analyzer.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/ml-commons.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/performance-analyzer-rca.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/opensearch-oci-object-storage.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/geospatial.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/notifications.git, https://github.com/opensearch-project/neural-search.git]

[peternied]

• Closing if favor of Allow customization of netty channel handles before and during decompression #10261