Update dependencies to latest supported (#1361)

# Pull Request

## 🤨 Rationale

Updates dependencies to the latest resolved by our package.json files
without modifying those specifiers. Hoping it pre-emptively helps the
discussion of [issues around dependency
changes](#1335 (comment))
but useful regardless.

As a bonus, fixes #1146 

## 👩‍💻 Implementation

- Regenerate the lock file (delete lock file, node_modules, and npm
install)
- Update CI node and npm version to reflect Skyline recent update and
better reflect local dev
- Pin Blazor playwright version to correspond to latest released on
nuget.org (as of writing
[1.36.0](https://www.nuget.org/packages/Microsoft.Playwright)) vs latest
released on npm which the previous specifier would resolve to (as of
writing [1.36.1](https://www.npmjs.com/package/playwright)).
- Update tests and stories based on lint rule behavior changes

## 🧪 Testing

Manual test storybook build but rely on CI for most.

## ✅ Checklist

- [x] I have updated the project documentation to reflect my changes or
determined no changes are needed.

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Co-authored-by: Malcolm Smith <[email protected]>

.github/workflows/main.yml

@@ -31,12 +31,12 @@ jobs:
         working-directory: packages/nimble-blazor/
       - uses: actions/setup-node@v3
         with:
-          node-version: '16'
+          node-version: '18'
           registry-url: 'https://registry.npmjs.org'
           cache: 'npm'
       # Specify npm version
       # See: https://github.com/actions/setup-node/issues/529
-      - run: npm i -g npm@8
+      - run: npm i -g npm@9
       - run: npm ci
 
       # print a log of outdated npm dependencies

change/@ni-nimble-blazor-eb4b8b4f-49d7-49d7-8647-ffdbbcb91b5c.json

@@ -0,0 +1,7 @@
+{
+  "type": "none",
+  "comment": "Pinned playwright devDep to latest nuget.org version",
+  "packageName": "@ni/nimble-blazor",
+  "email": "[email protected]",
+  "dependentChangeType": "none"
+}

change/@ni-nimble-components-e81dea16-5dd0-4d2d-8814-c5f263d310f1.json

@@ -0,0 +1,7 @@
+{
+  "type": "patch",
+  "comment": "Update tanstack dependency and configure undefined value sorting mode",
+  "packageName": "@ni/nimble-components",
+  "email": "[email protected]",
+  "dependentChangeType": "patch"
+}

change/@ni-nimble-tokens-53d62bd1-be2a-4fe1-9e78-13c91edb04b2.json

@@ -0,0 +1,7 @@
+{
+  "type": "none",
+  "comment": "Lint disable without behavior change",
+  "packageName": "@ni/nimble-tokens",
+  "email": "[email protected]",
+  "dependentChangeType": "none"
+}