Fix ResolverProxy use-after-free in HandleNodeBrowse

HandleNodeBrowse decrements the ResolverProxy reference count, which
will cause the object to be destructed if the counter reaches 0, and
then increments the counter and uses the object, which can be a
use-after-free. This commit fixes the problem by ordering Release to
occur after Retain.

This commit also adds an abort to ReferenceCounted to check for cases
like this.  Calling Retain on an object with a reference count that has
already decremented to 0 is always a bug.

Fixes project-chip#13289

src/lib/core/ReferenceCounted.h

@@ -51,6 +51,10 @@ class ReferenceCounted
     /** Adds one to the usage count of this class */
     Subclass * Retain()
     {
+        if (mRefCount == 0)
+        {
+            abort();
+        }
         if (mRefCount == std::numeric_limits<count_type>::max())
         {
             abort();

src/lib/dnssd/Discovery_ImplPlatform.cpp

@@ -129,7 +129,6 @@ static void HandleNodeIdResolve(void * context, DnssdService * result, CHIP_ERRO
 static void HandleNodeBrowse(void * context, DnssdService * services, size_t servicesSize, CHIP_ERROR error)
 {
     ResolverDelegateProxy * proxy = static_cast<ResolverDelegateProxy *>(context);
-    proxy->Release();
 
     for (size_t i = 0; i < servicesSize; ++i)
     {
@@ -144,6 +143,7 @@ static void HandleNodeBrowse(void * context, DnssdService * services, size_t ser
             HandleNodeResolve(context, &services[i], error);
         }
     }
+    proxy->Release();
 }
 
 CHIP_ERROR AddPtrRecord(DiscoveryFilter filter, const char ** entries, size_t & entriesCount, char * buffer, size_t bufferLen)