chore(NODE-6272): update dev dependencies and add dependabot config #106

Job	Run time
stable - x86_64-apple-darwin - node@20	2m 15s
stable - x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@20	2m 14s
stable - x86_64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@20	1m 56s
stable - x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@20	2m 9s
stable - aarch64-apple-darwin - node@20	2m 37s
stable - aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@20	2m 0s
stable - aarch64-unknown-linux-musl - node@20	2m 2s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-musl - node@	22s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@12	14s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@12	26s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@12	15s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@14	15s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@14	25s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@14	24s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@16	28s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@12	37s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@16	1m 9s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@16	13s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@14	56s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@18	16s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@18	1m 8s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@16	43s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@18	12s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@20	20s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@20	33s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@20	19s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@18	52s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@20	38s
Publish	13s
	26m 11s

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