feat: use go-libp2p-core 0.7.0 stream interfaces

[Stebalien]

depends on libp2p/go-libp2p#1001

[aschmahmann]

In listener.go we Reset the stream when it's closed instead of calling Close on it, is that intentional?

[Stebalien]

In listener.go we Reset the stream when it's closed instead of calling Close on it, is that intentional?

We reset the stream when the listener is closed before the stream has been accepted. In other words, we're aborting the accept.