Disable test NodeUpdateTest.UpdateSameRowRedundtanly for in mem mode tests #15389

Job	Run time
sanity checks	13s
rustfmt check	12s
python lint check	43s
clang format	39s
rust build & test	3m 6s
clang tidy & clangd diagnostics check	43m 28s
shell test	13m 50s
generate binary dataset	2m 29s
gcc build & test	12m 43s
clang build & test	12m 31s
apple clang build & test	9m 6s
code coverage	30m 42s
msvc build & test	39m 54s
webassembly build & test	44m 6s
macos extension test	2m 12s
clang build & test with page_size_log2=16	8m 49s
clang build & test with page_size_log2=18	7m 51s
gcc build & test with asan	36m 54s
gcc build & test in-mem only with various vector size	18m 48s
linux extension test	5m 35s
benchmark / benchmark	12m 20s
report benchmark result	13s
windows extension test	8m 19s
	5h 14m 43s

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