refactor: upstream Azure managed instance cache refactor for 1.29

[comtalyst]

What type of PR is this?

/kind cleanup

What this PR does / why we need it:

"Refactor" as a part of fork-upstream (managed-selfhosted) realignment. Should not have any breaking changes.
This codebases realignment will simplify the logistics between the two, cutting a significant portion of maintenance cost.
This PR specifically focus on instance caching.

There will be a separate effort focusing on improve code quality, rather than realigning codebase.

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Fixes #

Special notes for your reviewer:

Most changes are merely refactor. Also include small fixes to refresh instance cache in more cases that should be required. Also include support for currently managed-exclusive flags (e.g., EnableDetailedCSEMessage).

There are similar PRs out on master and other version release branches as well. Should be near identical.

Does this PR introduce a user-facing change?

- Azure: fix some cases where instance cache is outdated but not getting refreshes

Additional documentation e.g., KEPs (Kubernetes Enhancement Proposals), usage docs, etc.:

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