Backport-2.17/Calico: increase calico node probe timeouts and allow tunning (#7981)

[cristicalin]

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What this PR does / why we need it:
This is a backport to 2.17 of #7981 as requested in the comments of that PR.

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Does this PR introduce a user-facing change?:

Calico: increase calico node probe timeouts and allow tunning

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