apacheGH-39333: [C++] Don't use "if constexpr" in lambda

It seems that it's not portable. At least it doesn't work as expected
with Visual Studio 2017:

    C:/arrow/cpp/src/arrow/array/array_nested.cc(291): error C2065: 'validity': undeclared identifier (compiling source file C:\arrow-build\src\arrow\CMakeFiles\arrow_shared.dir\Unity\unity_0_cxx.cxx) [C:\arrow-build\src\arrow\arrow_shared.vcxproj]
      C:/arrow/cpp/src/arrow/array/array_nested.cc(660): note: see reference to function template instantiation 'arrow::Result<std::shared_ptr<arrow::Array>> arrow::`anonymous-namespace'::FlattenListViewArray<arrow::ListViewArray,false>(const ListViewArrayT &,arrow::MemoryPool *)' being compiled
              with
              [
                  ListViewArrayT=arrow::ListViewArray
              ] (compiling source file C:\arrow-build\src\arrow\CMakeFiles\arrow_shared.dir\Unity\unity_0_cxx.cxx)
      memory_pool.cc
    C:/arrow/cpp/src/arrow/array/array_nested.cc(291): error C2065: 'list_view_array_offset': undeclared identifier (compiling source file C:\arrow-build\src\arrow\CMakeFiles\arrow_shared.dir\Unity\unity_0_cxx.cxx) [C:\arrow-build\src\arrow\arrow_shared.vcxproj]

Use "if constexpr" in outer lambda.

cpp/src/arrow/array/array_nested.cc

@@ -286,14 +286,17 @@ Result<std::shared_ptr<Array>> FlattenListViewArray(const ListViewArrayT& list_v
   const auto* offsets = list_view_array.data()->template GetValues<offset_type>(1);
   const auto* sizes = list_view_array.data()->template GetValues<offset_type>(2);
 
-  auto is_null_or_empty = [&](int64_t i) {
-    if constexpr (HasNulls) {
+  std::function<bool(int64_t)> is_null_or_empty;
+  if constexpr (HasNulls) {
+    is_null_or_empty = [&](int64_t i) {
       if (!bit_util::GetBit(validity, list_view_array_offset + i)) {
         return true;
       }
-    }
-    return sizes[i] == 0;
-  };
+      return sizes[i] == 0;
+    };
+  } else {
+    is_null_or_empty = [&](int64_t i) { return sizes[i] == 0; };
+  }
 
   // Index of the first valid, non-empty list-view.
   int64_t first_i = 0;