fix: remove conditional autostart handling

[theborakompanioni]

Main change: Remove the conditional autostart feature.
Services will all be started by default.

Also contains a short delay (5s) when starting jmwalletd and ob-watcher to wait for tor port bindings.
Otherwise there might be a race condition and jm might try to start its own daemon (which will fail) before trying again (subsequently successful). Both services will be considered healthy only if they are running for at least 10 seconds (effectively 5 seconds considering the delay). This is a workaround as supervisord has no concept of dependencies between services. Currently looking at dinit as a replacement which might be suitable in the near future.

[dergigi]

Not the biggest fan of sleep, but looks good to me in general ✅

[theborakompanioni]

Not the biggest fan of sleep, but looks good to me in general white_check_mark

Same here, this approach is anything but bulletproof.. Searched for alternatives but did not want to do major changes before the next release. Thinking about trying dinit, and if it fits the purpose, use it in an upcoming version.

Will not merge for another day or two.. maybe a better fix comes to mind. If not, I'll nonetheless merge it later.
Thanks for reviewing 🧡