use inplace=True mode for WOQ

[xin3he]

Type of Change

enhancement

Description

use inplace mode for WOQ and build 3x API WOQ utility.

• contiguous is not an in-place op and returns Tensor instead of Parameter, so set it back to m.weight.data.
• transpose should be executed on Parameter level because Param.data.t_() is not an in-place op.
• Parameter.T is an in-place op while Tensor.T is not.

Expected Behavior & Potential Risk

UT pass

part of #1549