bs4 add outline for missing (#4214)

* add check for nil relation

* remove missing banner

components/financial_assistance/app/models/financial_assistance/application.rb

@@ -430,7 +430,7 @@ def find_all_relationships(matrix)
           next unless xi < yi
           relation = relationships.where(applicant_id: id_map[xi], relative_id: id_map[yi]).first
           relation_kind = relation&.kind
-          relation_has_error = invalid_ids.include?(relation&.id)
+          relation_has_error = invalid_ids.include?(relation&.id) || relation_kind.nil?
           all_relationships << {:applicant => id_map[xi], :relation => relation_kind, :relative => id_map[yi], :error => relation_has_error}
         end
       end

components/financial_assistance/app/views/financial_assistance/relationships/_form.html.erb

@@ -1,15 +1,5 @@
 <% if @bs4 %>
   <%= render partial: '/financial_assistance/shared/faa_progress_options', locals: {step: 2} %>
-  <% if @missing_relationships.any? %>
-    <div class="alert alert-error d-flex" role="alert">
-      <div>
-        <div class="error-icon icon mt-3" alt="error" aria-hidden="true">&nbsp;</div>
-      </div>
-      <div class="mt-2 mb-1">
-        <p><%= l10n("faa.review.your_household.relationships_error") %></p>
-      </div>
-    </div>
-  <% end %>
   <h1><%= l10n("family_relationships") %></h1>
   <p>
     <%= l10n("household_relationships") %>