Handle Matter nodes that become available after startup is done

[marcelveldt]

Proposed change

This fixes a small oversight/race condition in the initialization of matter nodes at startup.
If a node is not (yet) available at startup, we postpone initialization until the node reports its available later and then we pickup the discovery of entities.

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