update wheel building instructions

README.md

@@ -205,17 +205,16 @@ even 2.0.
 Python 3 is required.
 
 ### Creating wheels
-First, make a virtual environment and install `cmake_build_extension` and `wheel`
-into it:
+First, make a virtual environment and install `build` into it:
 ```
 python3 -m venv venv
 source venv/bin/activate
-pip install cmake_build_extension wheel
+pip install build
 ```
 
 Then build the wheel:
 ```
-python setup.py bdist_wheel
+python3 -m build
 ```
 
 The resulting wheel will be in the `dist` directory.