Don't pass on receiveEvent after CatalystInstance destruction

Summary:
It is possible for receiveEvent to be called concurrently with/after destruction of FabricUIManager. Drop events if we are able to detect that case.

Changelog: [Internal]

Reviewed By: sshic

Differential Revision: D29596271

fbshipit-source-id: 1fa50d9c3cff0bf578316d905966e1bdfffe94d1

ReactAndroid/src/main/java/com/facebook/react/fabric/FabricUIManager.java

@@ -820,6 +820,11 @@ public void receiveEvent(
       FLog.d(TAG, "Emitted event without surfaceId: [%d] %s", reactTag, eventName);
     }
 
+    if (mDestroyed) {
+      FLog.e(TAG, "Attempted to receiveEvent after destruction");
+      return;
+    }
+
     EventEmitterWrapper eventEmitter = mMountingManager.getEventEmitter(surfaceId, reactTag);
 
     if (eventEmitter == null) {