[Lens] Introduce ability to prevent default behaviour from action cal…

…lback (#152842)

## Summary

Fixes #149027

This PR adds the ability to provide an override to high level actions
like `filter` or `brushEnd`.

Note that the order of execution is now changed, nor that it was
guaranteed before, but due to the prevent default triggers behaviour,
the custom callback has to be executed as first step. Should we consider
it as breaking change? cc @stratoula

## How to use

```jsx
<LensEmbeddable
                        ...
                        onBrushEnd={({ range, preventDefault }) => {
                          setTime({
                            from: new Date(range[0]).toISOString(),
                            to: new Date(range[1]).toISOString(),
                          });

                          preventDefault(); // stop from bubbling
                        }}
                        onFilter={(_data) => {
                          // call back event for on filter event
                          ...
                          _data.preventDefault(); // stop from bubbling
                        }}
                        onTableRowClick={(_data) => {
                          // call back event for on table row click event
                           ...
                          _data.preventDefault(); // stop from bubbling
                        }}
                        ... />
```


### Checklist

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- [ ] Any text added follows [EUI's writing
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- [ ]
[Documentation](https://www.elastic.co/guide/en/kibana/master/development-documentation.html)
was added for features that require explanation or tutorials
- [ ] [Unit or functional
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were updated or added to match the most common scenarios
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### Risk Matrix

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Before closing this PR, invite QA, stakeholders, and other developers to
identify risks that should be tested prior to the change/feature
release.

When forming the risk matrix, consider some of the following examples
and how they may potentially impact the change:

| Risk | Probability | Severity | Mitigation/Notes |

|---------------------------|-------------|----------|-------------------------|
| Multiple Spaces&mdash;unexpected behavior in non-default Kibana Space.
| Low | High | Integration tests will verify that all features are still
supported in non-default Kibana Space and when user switches between
spaces. |
| Multiple nodes&mdash;Elasticsearch polling might have race conditions
when multiple Kibana nodes are polling for the same tasks. | High | Low
| Tasks are idempotent, so executing them multiple times will not result
in logical error, but will degrade performance. To test for this case we
add plenty of unit tests around this logic and document manual testing
procedure. |
| Code should gracefully handle cases when feature X or plugin Y are
disabled. | Medium | High | Unit tests will verify that any feature flag
or plugin combination still results in our service operational. |
| [See more potential risk
examples](https://github.com/elastic/kibana/blob/main/RISK_MATRIX.mdx) |


### For maintainers

- [ ] This was checked for breaking API changes and was [labeled
appropriately](https://www.elastic.co/guide/en/kibana/master/contributing.html#kibana-release-notes-process)

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Co-authored-by: Stratoula Kalafateli <[email protected]>