fix(quickstart): support for user-level sockets, arch option for forcing quickstart architecture

[shirshanka]

This PR fixes a couple of issues:

• Docker desktop 4.13 introduces the preference of using user-level sockets, which make the docker python library fail on instantiating a docker client. Example issue where this is affecting other projects as well. We now look for the user-level socket if the default docker client instantiation fails. A longer term fix might be to remove our dependency on the docker python lib and use os.subprocess exclusively for all docker operations.
• Detection of Apple silicon can be buggy if terminal emulation is enabled or the installed python is x86 based. We add a --arch option to allow the specification of architecture explicitly as a stop-gap measure while we improve our detection logic.

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Unit Test Results (build & test)

597 tests  ±0   593 ✔️ ±0   11m 52s ⏱️ -5s
147 suites ±0       4 💤 ±0 
147 files   ±0       0 ❌ ±0 

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Unit Test Results (metadata ingestion)

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   748 tests    745 ✔️ 3 💤 0 ❌
1 498 runs  1 492 ✔️ 6 💤 0 ❌

Results for commit f793a93.