backport: merge bitcoin#22840, #22937, #23446, #23522, #24026, #24104, #24167, #20744, partial bitcoin#23469, #24169 (replace boost::filesystem with std::filesystem)

backport: merge bitcoin#22840, #22937, #23446, #23522, #24026, #24104, #24167, #20744, partial bitcoin#23469, #24169 (replace boost::filesystem with std::filesystem) #8354