release-23.1: sql: add FORCE_INVERTED_INDEX hint

[mgartner]

Backport 3/4 commits from #120384.

/cc @cockroachdb/release

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sql/parser: move index hint tests to new file

This is purely a mechanical movement of parser tests with index hints
into a new file.

Release note: None

sql/parser: support FORCE_INVERTED_INDEX hint

This commit adds parsing support for the FORCE_INVERTED_INDEX hint. The
hint currently has no effect.

Release note: None

sql: support FORCE_INVERTED_INDEX hint

Epic: None

Release note (sql change): The FORCE_INVERTED_INDEX hint is now
supported. This makes the optimizer prefer a query plan scan over any
inverted index of the hinted table. The query will result in an error if
no such query plan can be generated.

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Release justification: This is a new feature that must be opted into.

[blathers-crl]

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[cockroach-teamcity]

This change is 

[DrewKimball]

Reviewed 2 of 2 files at r1, 4 of 4 files at r2, 8 of 8 files at r3, all commit messages.
Reviewable status: complete! 0 of 0 LGTMs obtained (waiting on @rytaft)

[rytaft]

Reviewed 2 of 2 files at r1, 4 of 4 files at r2, 8 of 8 files at r3, all commit messages.
Reviewable status: complete! 1 of 0 LGTMs obtained (waiting on @mgartner)