Update list payments to include chain swaps with only user lockup

[dangeross]

This PR allows a payment event to be emitted without a tx_id and updates the payments query to:

• do a FULL JOIN with the chain_swaps table (include chain swaps without claim txs) filtering out where the swap state is Created or TimedOut
• filter out receive_swaps where the swap state is Created, Failed or TimedOut

Fixes breez/misty-breez#276

{
    "destination": null,
    "tx_id": null,
    "timestamp": 1734626434,
    "amount_sat": 47796,
    "fees_sat": 2204,
    "swapper_fees_sat": 50,
    "payment_type": "Receive",
    "status": "Pending",
    "details": {
         "Bitcoin": {
             "swap_id": "tYJ9vuAa828n",
             "description": "Bitcoin transfer",
             "refund_tx_id": null,
             "refund_tx_amount_sat": null
         }
    }
}

[danielgranhao]

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