feat: integrate asm and db into controller

[gak]

Fixes #1692

This PR integrates AWS secrets manager (ASM) and DB project resolver/config provider into the controller.

Please note that ftl dev does not support these yet.

Manual test with localstack:

ftl🐚 ➜  ftl git:(gak/asm-in-controller) ✗ export AWS_REGION=us-west-2 export AWS_ACCESS_KEY_ID=test AWS_SECRET_ACCESS_KEY=test AWS_ENDPOINT_URL=http://localhost:4566
ftl🐚 ➜  ftl git:(gak/asm-in-controller) ✗ ftl-controller
info: Web console available at: http://localhost:8892
info: HTTP ingress server listening on: http://localhost:8891
warn:heartbeatController: failed to heartbeat controller: duplicate key value violates unique constraint "controller_endpoint_not_dead_idx": conflict

etc...

Another terminal using AWS secrets:

ftl🐚 ➜  ftl git:(gak/asm-in-controller) echo -n '{"user": "sup!", "pass": "<0001f9be>"}' | LOG_LEVEL=trace ftl secret set my.module --asm
trace: Loading config from /Users/gak/src/ftl/ftl-project.toml
trace: /xyz.block.ftl.v1.AdminService/SecretSet (unary)
ftl🐚 ➜  ftl git:(gak/asm-in-controller) ✗ ftl secret list
my.module
ftl🐚 ➜  ftl git:(gak/asm-in-controller) ✗ ftl secret get my.module
{"user": "sup!", "pass": "🦾"}

And config via db:

ftl🐚 ➜  ftl git:(gak/asm-in-controller) ftl config set myconfig hithere --db
ftl🐚 ➜  ftl git:(gak/asm-in-controller) ftl config list
myconfig
ftl🐚 ➜  ftl git:(gak/asm-in-controller) ftl config get myconfig
hithere

[alecthomas]

Awesome thanks @gak