fix: Fix webhook owner ref on v0.35.x (cherry-pick)

[jonathan-innis]

Fixes #N/A

Description

Adds changes detailed in kubernetes-sigs/karpenter#1716 into the Provider Repo. This ensures that we both don't add and remove existing owner references from our webhook configuration objects so that we don't leak the objects when applying them with Argo.

How was this change tested?

make presubmit
/karpenter snapshot

Does this change impact docs?

• Yes, PR includes docs updates
• Yes, issue opened: #
• No

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[jonathan-innis]

/karpenter snapshot

[github-actions]

Snapshot successfully published to oci://021119463062.dkr.ecr.us-east-1.amazonaws.com/karpenter/snapshot/karpenter:0-8a3d5605653a3fb84af02e2a4b2ec42faa095cec.
To install you must login to the ECR repo with an AWS account:

aws ecr get-login-password --region us-east-1 | docker login --username AWS --password-stdin 021119463062.dkr.ecr.us-east-1.amazonaws.com

helm upgrade --install karpenter oci://021119463062.dkr.ecr.us-east-1.amazonaws.com/karpenter/snapshot/karpenter --version "0-8a3d5605653a3fb84af02e2a4b2ec42faa095cec" --namespace "kube-system" --create-namespace \
  --set "settings.clusterName=${CLUSTER_NAME}" \
  --set "settings.interruptionQueue=${CLUSTER_NAME}" \
  --set controller.resources.requests.cpu=1 \
  --set controller.resources.requests.memory=1Gi \
  --set controller.resources.limits.cpu=1 \
  --set controller.resources.limits.memory=1Gi \
  --wait