fix: remove /node_modules/. from ignored paths

[thesayyn]

fixes #183

[gregmagolan]

Looks like you have to try/catch on the lstat to handle the file does not exist ENOENT case?

==================== Test output for //ts/test/ts_project_worker:fstree_test:
node:internal/fs/utils:344
    throw err;
    ^

Error: ENOENT: no such file or directory, lstat '/home/runner/.cache/bazel/_bazel_runner/537fa4813b44af3837a26a2cda63cb2b/sandbox/linux-sandbox/417/execroot/aspect_rules_ts/_tmp/4[58](https://github.com/aspect-build/rules_ts/actions/runs/3430459081/jobs/5717451300#step:6:59)5122692a90866cc108a43b4f7d3a8/tree/subtree/input.js'
    at Object.lstatSync (node:fs:1514:3)
    at Object.lstatSync (/home/runner/.cache/bazel/_bazel_runner/537fa4813b44af3837a26a2cda63cb2b/external/aspect_rules_js/js/private/node-patches/fs.js:110:23)
    at Object.add (/home/runner/.cache/bazel/_bazel_runner/537fa4813b44af3837a26a2cda63cb2b/sandbox/linux-sandbox/417/execroot/aspect_rules_ts/bazel-out/k8-fastbuild/bin/ts/test/ts_project_worker/fstree_test.sh.runfiles/aspect_rules_ts/ts/test/ts_project_worker/ts_project_worker.js:104:25)
    at Object.<anonymous> (/home/runner/.cache/bazel/_bazel_runner/537fa4813b44af3837a26a2cda[63](https://github.com/aspect-build/rules_ts/actions/runs/3430459081/jobs/5717451300#step:6:64)cb2b/sandbox/linux-sandbox/417/execroot/aspect_rules_ts/bazel-out/k8-fastbuild/bin/ts/test/ts_project_worker/fstree_test.sh.runfiles/aspect_rules_ts/ts/test/ts_project_worker/fstree.test.js:16:6)
    at Module._compile (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1101:14)
    at Object.Module._extensions..js (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1153:10)
    at Module.load (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:981:32)
    at Function.Module._load (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:822:12)
    at Function.executeUserEntryPoint [as runMain] (node:internal/modules/run_main:79:12)
    at node:internal/main/run_main_module:17:47 {
  errno: -2,
  syscall: 'lstat',
  code: 'ENOENT',
  path: '/home/runner/.cache/bazel/_bazel_runner/537fa4813b44af3837a26a2cda63cb2b/sandbox/linux-sandbox/417/execroot/aspect_rules_ts/_tmp/4585122692a908[66](https://github.com/aspect-build/rules_ts/actions/runs/3430459081/jobs/5717451300#step:6:67)cc108a43b4f7d3a8/tree/subtree/input.js'
}