bump cibuildwheel action to v2.17.0 #3046

Job	Run time
build (asio-debugging=on picker-debugging=on)	6m 59s
check headers	3m 44s
clang-tidy	9m 44s
build (extensions=off logging=off streaming=off super-seeding=off share-mode=off predictive-piece...	4m 52s
build (crypto=gcrypt)	5m 15s
build dist (ubuntu-20.04)	2m 34s
build (mmap-disk-io=off)	6m 2s
Fuzzers	8m 11s
build dist (ubuntu-22.04)	2m 8s
pre-commit	15s
Simulations	8m 26s
Tests (address-sanitizer=norecover undefined-sanitizer=norecover crypto=openssl)	5m 22s
Tests (toolset=clang logging=off address-sanitizer=norecover undefined-sanitizer=norecover)	11m 44s
Tests (thread-sanitizer=norecover crypto=openssl release debug-symbols=on cxxflags=-Wno-tsan)	5m 19s
Tests (crypto=gnutls)	4m 55s
Tests (deprecated-functions=off)	5m 34s
	1h 31m 4s

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