[branch-2.0](cherry-pick) update dcheck to avoid core during stress test (#28895)

[zhannngchen]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

cherry-pick #28895 from master

Further comments

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[zhannngchen]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[doris-robot]

TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 37.85% (8018/21181)
Line Coverage: 29.54% (65202/220721)
Region Coverage: 28.98% (33499/115607)
Branch Coverage: 24.83% (17183/69196)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/0d561d43784aaa55cd587084113df1c7d518898a_0d561d43784aaa55cd587084113df1c7d518898a/report/index.html

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 51.7 seconds
stream load tsv: 564 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 126 MB/s
stream load json: 19 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 118 MB/s
stream load orc: 66 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 15 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 29.9 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 334K ops/s
storage size: 17162640769 Bytes