Revert async changes but keep deltalake working

[avantgardnerio]

Which issue does this PR close?

Closes #3977.

Rationale for this change

Described in the issue.

What changes are included in this PR?

1. Revert the async change
2. (re)add the with_schema method to TableProviderFactory for non-async use

Are there any user-facing changes?

They will have to find a non-async way to create their tables.

[alamb]

if it works for delta-rs it works for me. Thanks @avantgardnerio

[yahoNanJing]

Thanks @avantgardnerio. LGTM

[ursabot]

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