Prep for 13.0.0 release

[andygrove]

Which issue does this PR close?

Part of #3671

Rationale for this change

Everyone loves releases

What changes are included in this PR?

• Bump versions
• CHANGELOG

This release contains 102 commits from 31 contributors.

    21  Andrew Lamb
    12  Andy Grove
    12  Kun Liu
     6  Batuhan Taskaya
     4  Dan Harris
     4  Daniël Heres
     4  Kirk Mitchener
     4  Remzi Yang
     4  Wei-Ting Kuo
     4  askoa
     3  Raphael Taylor-Davies
     3  Yang Jiang
     3  dependabot[bot]
     1  AssHero
     1  BaymaxHWY
     1  Brent Gardner
     1  Dhamotharan Sritharan
     1  Francis Du
     1  George Andronchik
     1  Jiayu Liu
     1  Jon Mease
     1  Matthijs Brobbel
     1  Mehmet Ozan Kabak
     1  Metehan Yıldırım
     1  Morgan Cassels
     1  Rito Takeuchi
     1  Ruihang Xia
     1  comphead
     1  gorkem
     1  mateuszkj
     1  xudong.w

Are there any user-facing changes?

[andygrove]

@alamb @Dandandan @tustvold PTAL. Once this is merged, I can cut the RC.

[alamb]

A long and impressive list 👍

[alamb]

LGTM -- luck number 13!

[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = 242b5c5 and contender = 807a0c1. 807a0c1 is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
Conbench compare runs links:
[Skipped ⚠️ Benchmarking of arrow-datafusion-commits is not supported on ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2] ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Skipped ⚠️ Benchmarking of arrow-datafusion-commits is not supported on test-mac-arm] test-mac-arm
[Skipped ⚠️ Benchmarking of arrow-datafusion-commits is not supported on ursa-i9-9960x] ursa-i9-9960x
[Skipped ⚠️ Benchmarking of arrow-datafusion-commits is not supported on ursa-thinkcentre-m75q] ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Buildkite builds:
Supported benchmarks:
ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R. Runs only benchmarks with cloud = True
test-mac-arm: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Python, R
ursa-i9-9960x: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R, JavaScript
ursa-thinkcentre-m75q: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Java