feat: track memory consumers for GreedyMemoryPoolState #23796

Job	Run time
cargo test (macos)	26m 51s
cargo test (win64)	21m 7s
cargo check	2m 56s
Check cargo fmt	36s
cargo test (macos-aarch64)	7m 45s
Verify MSRV (Min Supported Rust Version)	7m 1s
Verify Vendored Code	45s
build with wasm-pack	2m 22s
cargo test (amd64)	10m 0s
cargo test datafusion-cli (amd64)	3m 35s
check Cargo.toml formatting	2m 48s
cargo test hash collisions (amd64)	9m 37s
cargo doc	3m 54s
clippy	5m 56s
cargo test doc (amd64)	12m 56s
cargo examples (amd64)	9m 46s
Run sqllogictest with Postgres runner	3m 18s
cargo test pyarrow (amd64)	2m 40s
verify benchmark results (amd64)	10m 40s
check configs.md is up-to-date	2m 31s
	2h 27m 4s

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