Make filter selectivity for statistics configurable #20807

Job	Run time
cargo test (win64)	28m 54s
cargo check	2m 1s
Check cargo fmt	34s
build with wasm-pack	1m 47s
cargo test (mac)	17m 21s
Verify MSRV	6m 21s
Verify Vendored Code	42s
cargo test (amd64)	9m 17s
cargo test doc (amd64)	9m 29s
cargo test datafusion-cli (amd64)	2m 44s
cargo examples (amd64)	6m 12s
cargo doc	3m 7s
check Cargo.toml formatting	1m 21s
check configs.md is up-to-date	2m 9s
clippy	4m 8s
cargo test hash collisions (amd64)	8m 22s
Run sqllogictest with Postgres runner	3m 15s
cargo test pyarrow (amd64)	2m 14s
verify benchmark results (amd64)	9m 49s
	1h 59m 47s

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