Enable passing a multiprocessing/parallel pool when computing SCF coefficients

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Describe your changes

This adds a keyword argument to the compute_coeffs_discrete() function to allow specifying a parallel processing pool when computing the coefficients for a particle collection. This parallelizes over (n,l,m), so it is faster when the number of particles is large and nmax, lmax is large.

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cc @jngaravitoc !