DB: Add preparedStmtWithRowCount

[zach2good]

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What does this pull request do?

Does some items in #5361

Steps to test these changes

    auto [rset, rowCount] = db::preparedStmtRowCount("UPDATE chars SET nation = ? WHERE charid = ?", 2, 1);
    ShowInfoFmt("rowCount: {}", rowCount);