Handle RuleConfig and move to new world

[oxinabox]

This is the companion to JuliaDiff/ChainRulesCore.jl#363
which was breaking for this, but only in a silly way.

This PR does 3 things.

1 . corrects the incorrect definition of the frule fallback

That ChainRulesCore PR as a complete side change corrected the fallback from frule(f, args...) to frule(dargs, f, args...).
Which never really mattered since everything was Any typed, but still was wrong, and turned on CROG (ChainRulesOverloadGeneration) depended on that

2. drop support for CRC (ChainRulesCore) 0.9 and remove deprecated things

We needed to drop that so we can talk about RuleConfigs for next part

3. Filter out rules that require RuleConfig

Technically we can ignore these, adding the config wasn't actually breaking.
But it does make the hook function spew out a ton of warnings.
So we would rather not.

In some future PR we will bring them back.
but will need to think a bit about the API.
The user already does a lot of filtering, so probably we will want to let them do this filtering also.

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Merging #4 (03b8233) into master (9bf7935) will decrease coverage by 1.70%.
The diff coverage is 100.00%.

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+ Hits           49       52       +3     
- Misses          1        2       +1     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
src/ruleset_loading.jl	96.07% <100.00%> (-1.80%)	⬇️

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