Update syswinint to 3.x (align with Revit)

[mjkkirschner]

Purpose

Aligns to latest blend sdk version of system.windows.interactivity - this is the same version popular packages and Revit itself ships:

related:
#10162
#10163

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• The codebase is in a better state after this PR
• Is documented according to the standards
• The level of testing this PR includes is appropriate
• User facing strings, if any, are extracted into *.resx files
• All tests pass using the self-service CI.
• Snapshot of UI changes, if any.
• Changes to the API follow Semantic Versioning and are documented in the API Changes document.

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[mjkkirschner]

@QilongTang is this good to merge or do you want to look at other solutions first?

[QilongTang]

@mjkkirschner LGTM

[mjkkirschner]

acad does not seem to include this dll. merging.